Category: love

  • Hope vs Expectation

    Obviously there is a difference between hoping for something and expecting it. The hope that this will happen, that someone shows up, that that is real. Hope is what you have when something is possible yet, not actually certain. Hope has room for you to sigh and say, “Damn, that would have been great/nice/amazing”! Expecting…

  • You created it!

    So, you are an open-minded person. You believe in free speech, social justice, equality and all such things. You are an activist. You are an example to your children too. You have taught them through words and by example that they should not tolerate being stereo-typed, forced to conform to social norms. Never be pigeon…

  • Big Spoon, Little Spoon

    There is more to ‘sleeping together’ than sex.  There is the literal ‘sleeping’ part. Although is seems rather obvious up front, the fact is, getting sleep with someone else in the same bed is not as easy as it sounds. To really ‘sleep’ with someone is a learned habit. It takes as much practice to…

  • Dear readers –

    It seems a few of you have gleaned from my mood and musings that a certain level of depression and even desperation are inhabiting me. Seems that a few more of you went so far as to research my earlier posts when I was in a similar state. There, you found the topic of suicide…